What Happens if I Don't Find an Adoptive Family?
Although pregnancies usually follow a nine-month timeline, there is no such deadline for adoption. You can take your time with the process instead of worrying about what happens if you don’t find an adoptive family before the baby is born.
However, we are confident that you will find your baby’s adoptive parents with us. Our agency works with hundreds of families all over the country (and even some in U.S. territories and international locations). We can help you find the right adoptive parents. Give us a call at 1-800-ADOPTION or fill out our online form to get in contact with an adoption specialist.
I Need Someone to Adopt My Baby Before It’s Too Late
If you feel like you need someone to adopt your baby before you give birth, don’t worry. There is no time limit on adoption. You can choose a family before you give birth, while you’re at the hospital or even after you’ve taken the baby home. Our agency facilitates adoptions for newborns and toddlers between 1 and 3, so you don’t need to hurry your decision.
Adoption is a very personal choice. You might be navigating feelings of anger, fear, sadness and shame. You may even be holding off on choosing a family because you want to be able to parent your baby. We understand what you’re going through, and you’re not alone. Many birth mothers have been in similar situations.
“I had been considering adoption since I was about five months, but at that time I didn’t know if I really wanted that. Like I was trying to come up with every single route and alternative that I could take aside from adoption. I was actually hoping that it was too late. That was going to be my excuse as to why I did not do it. But, surprisingly, it was not.” –Ta’Shira, birth mother
You can take as much time as you need to find the right adoptive family for your baby. You are in control of the adoption process; deciding who gets to love and care for your baby is your choice.
I Want Someone to Adopt My Baby, but I’ve Already Given Birth
If you find a family to adopt your baby while you’re at the hospital, we can help. Our adoption specialist will contact the adoptive family immediately so they can travel to your hospital. Depending on how far away they live, their journey could be quick.
However, you will still be in control of the adoption process. You could meet the family in your hospital room, or you could handle things more privately. And if you want more time with your baby, that’s okay. You don’t have to sign the paperwork until you’re ready.
Our agency can move as fast or as slow as you prefer. Once you decide on an adoptive family, we’ll make sure everything goes according to your plan.
Can I Decide Who Wants to Adopt My Baby?
Yes, you can pick out your baby’s adoptive family whether you’re still pregnant, at the hospital or even back at home with your newborn. This can be an exciting part of the adoption process, and our agency wants to ensure you’re in control at all times.
Your adoption specialist will work with you to determine your preferences. Think about what matters most to you. Expecting parents and birth mothers often narrow down potential adoptive families by:
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Religion
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Lifestyle
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Hobbies
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Family size
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Family type
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Race
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And more
Once you’ve decided on some criteria for your baby’s adoptive family, your adoption specialist will show you profiles of matching adoptive families. You can look through as many profiles as it takes to find the right adoptive parents for your baby. If you’re struggling with uncertainty, your adoption specialist can talk with you and see if there are any preferences you’re willing to expand to open up your options. You can also browse our adoptive family profiles online at any time.
How Do I Find Someone Who Wants to Adopt My Baby?
Some pregnant women may feel overwhelmed as they approach their due date, thinking, “I just need someone to adopt my baby, please.” It’s okay to take time choosing your baby’s adoptive family. There’s no rush — you can move forward with adoption even after giving birth or taking your baby home.
Our staff is comprised of birth mothers, adoptive parents and adoptees, so we know what kind of pressure you might be feeling. To talk with an adoption specialist today about your situation, you can call 1-800-ADOPTION or fill out our short contact form.
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